How this date does come by? You pondered.

It started in the time of Roman Empire.

The lives of young boys and girls were strictly separated.

However, one of the customs of the young people was to draw.

On the eve of the festival, the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars.

Each young man would draw a girl's name from the jar and would then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose.

Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry.

I called it Heaven Made, how bout you.

But well, who could ever be lovelier than my darling? Of course am conscious, it imply only in my splendor world.

Few of us were conferring about affairs and infidelity over a bottle of Moet.

I invariably unearth the most common relationship problem.

What is it that drives a marital partner to engage in an outside liaison?

Life is full of capricious twist and turns. Who knows what's next besides God?

My heart surge whenever I heard of another betrayal.

Why is it happening to my friends one after another?

Naturally, the finger would be accusing towards the one flinging outside. Me? I always believe there are two sides to a coin.

It takes 2 hands to clap, that's for sure.

Something somewhere must have gone off beam before we start looking for love outside to fill up our emotional tank.

Hence, even if it is the smallest minute talk, we should not belittle it.

We gain naught by bottling up our thoughts and feelings.

The more we talk, the more we open a window to the real us.

Friendship is the trait that will allow our relationship to remain strong.

Not that I am a LOVE GURU, but I do read quite a fair bit of books, and attended couple of marriage seminars with bi.

I just thought of sharing the tips here, since it is always that simple striking a marriage conversation over a hot sunny afternoon.

Cultivation of our friendship is one we take pride in. We markedly trust doing things together and going places with one another.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. And a person's lifetime is an expansive period of time.

Things changed, interests reformed.

Take my netball as an example; as the team captain, I used to fall head over heels with it. And now, you couldn’t pay me enough to a game.

But Mahjong had been a bona fide interest since 8. Desmond, Angie, Esther, Gracee, Chua, Raye, Xiaohui, Peter, are you guys reading this?

If Bi were to ever buy Netball as a gift, my heart would sore.

Probably it means he is insensate towards my lifestyle, having living with him for this long.

But he didn't. Thank God for that. I got a Coach Bag instead with the companion of sumptuous American style breakfast!