Sick & Tired . . .
As you can read from my title,
Yes, I am exceptionally sick and tried of answering the same question over and over and over again!
What question you might marvel; its all about my marriage!
Some of my friends & my family members are conscious of my husband`s new found job.
And as usual as the sun sets in the East, so many negative and destructive comments were spouted out!
Of course on the contrary, I have a handful of self-assured friends, did accolade on it too!
That goes to show how confident a person can be presuming on the words that they afflicted.
I mean I do appreciate that as a female friend or relative of mine,
You turn out to be weary on my behalf,
upsetting that my husband might not be able to resist to the temptations he will be facing in work.
Most likely you should find me too exceedingly confident of myself if I were to say that I really do trust my husband.
I reckon that`s one of the imperative aspects to maintain a blissful lasting marriage, well at least to me.
Mixed feelings did encompass me.
But soon after a heart-to-heart talk with my hubby, I felt myself again!
I wouldn`t want him to lament any regrets of his younger days in life.
Yes, like what I always said;
Life is a One way Road, and he`s certainly aint gonna be 25 years old again, and likewise for me.
We are all so concerned about going the right or wrong way in life, that we don`t even realize that we are actually missing out on living our lives.
One of my biggest fears in life (besides losing my love ones) is to be on my death bed asking myself, did I truly live a fulfilling life?
Now that my hubby is so ever accommodating and loving towards me, the least I could do for him besides loving him, is to support his decision (I mean if its `revenue generating` la)!
Someone once told me: At a certain stage of life, you would need certain things, to fulfill your needs.
And I find it so true!
Don`t get me wrong though, as much as I am at that stage of life, material things dont define me!
This is one of my favourite poems that explain it all:
What money can buy...
A bed but not sleep
Books but not knowledge
Food but not appetite
Finery but not beauty
A house but not a home
Medicine but not health
Luxuries but not comfort
Pleasures but not happiness
Life has probably just begun!
Thus, a man of quality is not threatened by a woman of equality!
Nope, I have not forgotten our Promise! :)
